What is Inner Game? Well, its a pretty fancy term for some of our most important traits as a man.
Inner Game includes things like:
– Self-confidence – Being cool, not needy, and self-reliant
– Controlling your fears and emotions – Not losing control and becoming a train wreck when you are put in situations that are unfamiliar or charged
– Control of your thinking – Not getting caught in your head and stuck in your own thinking being present-moment focused Having inner awareness and self-control
– Getting rid of anxiety and nervousness – Feeling relaxed and calm in any social situation Having good social skills
– Self-esteem – Feeling good about yourself and liking yourself Being able to handle criticism and the negative opinions of others Not needing their approval all the time
Inner Game can also mean many more things to you. Here are some of the different definitions that guys have told me over the years:
– Inner Game is: Knowing that a woman has certain expectations of you that you need to live up to
– Inner Game is: Being relaxed and natural with women, and not having to fake it to make it all the time
– Inner Game is: Knowing youve got the goods when it comes to having value to give to a woman – in conversation, as well as in your lifestyle
– Inner Game is: Not feeling awkward around women or in social situations
– Inner Game is: Keeping conversations with women interesting and going where you want them to go – without ending up as another shoulder to cry on
– Inner Game is: Getting past your flaws and frustrations once and for all
– Inner Game is: Being able to take the risks you always wanted to
– Inner Game is: Managing the peaks and valleys of your confidence level as it goes up and down
– Inner Game is: Making things youve already learned about women and all the pieces fall into place quicker
– Inner Game is: Not feeling disappointed by women and relationships from the past
– Inner Game is: Bouncing back from failures and rejections and not taking them personally
– Inner Game is: Staying true to yourself and your identity – not compromising your values and morals just to get women or get ahead in life
– Inner Game is: Overcoming your own internal conflicts
– Inner Game is: Awareness and knowing yourself inside and out
– Inner Game is: Having a strong grip on your own reality – and not getting caught off guard, no matter what comes your way!
– Inner Game is: Being the dominant ALPHA of the group instead of the guy who cant get a word in edgewise in the conversation
– Inner Game is: Stop being so attached to the outcome and just be present-moment focused, having fun and staying out of your head
– Inner Game is: Knowing that whatever happens in life, you will prevail and come out on top!